I would go for wraith

Both have their ups and downs, wraith will give u summons and all the other cool buffs that will help you alot in leveling and a little in PvP. Life on the other hand is really strong if you are using assault for 1 seconds cast time reduction + vestment so you can use all the Damage reflect buffs + Get healing cross 5 and heal to 100% hp in 1 INStANT spell.

If you want life, you gotta be vestment. With around 30k SA you can heal 79k hp every 2 seconds(way more if healing cross V), but your problem will be the immense MP cost.

Life's Hurt recovery will tank critical hits and the new life buff blessed stanza gives you 60% movement speed. On the other hand, if you have garm and have a high defence and using demonic counter you will be able to tank melee dmg pretty well. The new summon putridox also hits hard and tanky enough to split multi hit aoes like steel rain and holy pummel so you do not take all of it directly.

The mainly idea is for PVE. In that case, would be better Wraith, cuz it block meele damage ?

Assuming your base build is axe shield + assault/curse + garment/vestment, you'll have 2 skill slots left to play around with... If you like durability (tanky-ness), you can explore wraith and avatar. It's the old 3 lives hax. (sacred shield + deceptive clone + holy soul shield). This isn't too effective now against sins or powerful mages. If you like offensive and overall, go with spear . Senki and passion warcry on passive, bloodlust for sutainable SP usage for axe, spear trap for pure damage delivery. If you're rich and you want to waste gold on skill research, go with enhance and/or grapple, so we can figure out if it's not entirely useless for non-assasins. If you like sustainability and overall, go with earth. You get shapeshifts, buffs (debuffs), stealth, regen, charm, and spirit binding. If you want to abuse the broken sin skill (shadow waltz), go with shadowblade. Insta-stealth if your combo doesn't kill. (Doesn't stack with avatar though) Axe is already your base so pummel or angry charge is your main offensive strategy, your sub-offensive could be shield bash, and shield hit. These are of course accompanied by berserker's fury, tornado, thor, crusher, and any 4SP aoe you like.

Firstly thanks for respond=)Axe/Shield/Earth or Wraith/Assault/Reserve/Mantle.This one looks good ^^.But im still not sure about earth or wraith also do you have any idea about life/bow?I mean dropping earth or wraith and adding bow or life

Also for mage build found this :Life/Chaos/Shield/Staff hit/Assault/Vestment “. Any idea (is it good/bad)?

Axe/shield/earth/shadowblade/reserve/mantle is good if you're looking for more SD. Earth gives 3k sd with alloy bark and tons of regens/rebounds/hp buffs and Gaian force is a pretty OP rebound vs melee players and is far more effective compared to demonic counter although it has a 1 min cd. Axe/shield/life also works as you have life's OP heal healing cross that can heal about 60k per 2 sec with 26k SA and you can always use buffs to improve sa and get more heal. Carbuncle+mirror reflect can reflect 36% of magic damage (ex: mage hits you 100k they get 36k dmg, more if you use aegis and similar buffs) and hurt recovery heals 42% of critical damage you take which helps A LOT especially when you are fully buffed as critical hits IGNORE % defence. You can also use blessed stanza to improve hp/mp% and boost your movement speed by 60%(stacks with frontier flag and mad enchancement o,o!). You can also add Celestial heal to give another 11k in heal and it stacks with healing cross. You could also be creative and use cross sagracious to stun players from far away and can revive your friends in pvp area :p. And yeah, shadow waltz of shadowblade is pretty useful, you can basically throw a multihit aoe like pummel and use that and don't die to the rebounds from high SA mages.

Remember if you are going to go with axe/shield/life you have to have vestment to cast the heal fast and i would only recommend getting shadowblade for it if you have shadowy killer V so you can cast the heal instantly.